Reaction To Ministry That Works To Help Gays Go Straight
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WITN received an outpouring of comments in response to our story about a ministry that claims to help gays go straight.

We sat down to talk with two of the people who told us they do not believe these types of ministries work.

Aaron Lucier is an openly gay man from Greenville.

"I'd have to say that I really do believe that anything is possible through God, but at the same time, I also believe in a God that made me gay and made me as a person that is a homosexual, therefore I don't believe that God's going to be in the business of making that change."

Lucier says he is in a committed relationship with both his partner and God, a combination he feels goes against the belief of ministries that work to help homosexuals change their sexuality.

"Years of me thinking and working on it and praying about it and thinking about it over the years, until I've gotten to a point that my sexuality is not in conflict with my spirituality, and I'm in a very comfortable spot."

Reverend Ann Marie Alderman heads the Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Greenville, which promotes the inherent worth and dignity of every person. The Reverend says ministries that help homosexuals change their sexuality send the wrong message.

"That you're either immoral on the outside of a faith community and can be free to do whatever you want to do or you have to change your orientation to be good."

Lucier and Reverend Alderman say they're against homosexual conversion therapy. They believe it perpetuates the idea that homosexuality is wrong and needs to be fixed.

"I believe homophobia is the sin," said the Reverend. "When we fear gay people just because they're gay, that's the sin we need to ask God to rid us of".

Both Lucier and Reverend Alderman were among dozens of people who responded to a story earlier this week on a man who claimed he was converted from gay to straight through prayer and ministry.

North Carolina minister Ron Elmore says he lived his life as a gay man for over 20-years. But, then through intense prayer and scriptures, Elmore says God changed him from homosexual to heterosexual.

Elmore said, "I didn't know why. I didn't choose to be homosexual."

Growing up in a North Carolina group home, Elmore says he started to engage in relationships with boys, to feel loved and accepted. But, he says his life as a openly gay man really began after he left the military at the age of 19.

According to Elmore, more relationships and drug abuse followed in the coming years until a co-worker spoke to elmore about his lifestyle.

He says, "And one day she walked up to me and very calmly and quietly said you need to go back to where your joy is."

Elmore says that meant a christ-filled life without homosexuality.

Elmore explains, "To follow christ and to say no to my behavior of homosexuality, um I really felt like I could live life differently that that's what God wanted, he wanted me to pursue him, not pursue men."

Today, Elmore is married to a woman and through his ministry, Beyond Imagination, a member minstry of the Exodus Church International, he makes it his life mission to help homosexuals longing to change.

Elmore said, "So people can say, you can't change and I say yes you can."

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Posted by: Concerned parent Location: Tennessee on Nov 21, 2008 at 01:15 AM
Gays so needed to go straight. If this Mistry would like to help them good Amen to that. ON Judgemnet Day which is coming soon they will be standing in front of the Master Jesus Christ and the Book of Life and all that have sin will be thrown in the pit of hell and being gay is a sin. no mater how you try to word it or change it so. It's the Truth and many will find out the hard way and I feel sorry for them. You might be able to twist the verses around but that not gong to save your soul on Judgement Day Jesus bend the rule for no one no matter what world gay or etc. organization said. Repent and don't repeat. Pray that God will sent you sign and wonder.

Posted by: Tony Location: Greenville, SC on Jul 24, 2008 at 04:42 PM
The Reverend said that she believes homophobia is a sin which shows only her bias. Scripture is pretty clear on what God sees as sin. Homophobia isn't listed. Homosexuality is. Helping a person leaves what the Bible lists as sin is NOT homophobia. It's called holiness.

Posted by: John Location: Brooklyn, NY on Jun 27, 2008 at 04:58 PM
Growing up as a gay person is a choice,not something your born with.Me having to deal with the choice of "am i gay or not" is a sinned, something i will have to deal with the rest of my life, not unless i give my soul to god, the natural and purity of my heart has always been active ever since i was born, the gift i recieved from god is the power to heal, but its that disturbance of "i want to try it out with a man".. thats keeps drawing me to passion. would god love me if i was gay. this ? haunts me, but i know that if you truly want to live the pure life u must get rid of all sin and obey gods rule..i have that urge but one the other hand i dont want to dissapoint god..i always felt i was a gay person since i was a small child, having thoughts, toughing, playing with guys. i go to church now i feel so energetic and alive and free cause im a christian , but i still have the gay thoughs in my head. its hard to let go, i love this world and the people along with it

Posted by: Michael Location: Nashville, TN on Jan 26, 2008 at 04:11 PM
one more thing. My sexuality doesn't define who I am. Gay, bi, straight, ex- gay....none of that says who I am. I am a child of God. A servant of the almighty. I find my identity in Christ alone, who lives and works and moves in everything I do. I think a lot of us miss the point. Born gay or made gay, we are called to be lights in a broken world. I am ashamed to say that I have seen very little light in your angry bickering. "and this is what I command: love one another."

Posted by: Michael Location: Nashville, TN on Jan 26, 2008 at 03:54 PM
Im 16 and a junior in high school. Just over a year ago, I became a follower of Christ. I'd been openly gay for about a year and a half, when a friend driving me home talked to me about Christ. He invited me to a youth group thing one Wednesday, and well, here we are, life is good, perfect in fact. If only it was that simple. You see, at the beginning, right after I'd accepted Christ, I still hadn't really figured out this whole homosexuality in the church thing. So I kept coming to church. And wishing for a boyfriend. God gave me that boyfriend; but God, in all His glory, used it for Him. My boyfriend was a Christian in the same place I was: questioning, quietly. We were together, and wanted it never to end; and yet, we both knew something was wrong. It wasn't us, or anything wrong with our relationship, so much; We just both came to realize that this was wrong, that we could no longer stand before God without a tinge ofguilt. So we ended it. And we're both fighting for freedom.

Posted by: Lee Location: Chicago on Jan 16, 2008 at 12:26 PM
I would like to know how to obtain the desire to change if all you desire is intimacy from another man although I do love God and desire to please him.

Posted by: Frank Location: Miami,Fl on Dec 9, 2007 at 04:15 PM
I totally support ron. Its beautiful to hear that some people can go beyond their situations and live the lives they are happy in. who are we to judge Ron for how he lives his life? why are we afraid that someone can have enough freedom to live their lives according to their conviction? we celebrate the alcoholic who never drinks a drop in order to live a happier life... why do we not celebrate ron as he chooses to live his life freely?

Posted by: Claudia Location: Greenville on Dec 5, 2007 at 09:41 AM
I believe that the only thing Minister Elmore has succeeded in doing is to lock himself BACK into a closet in the name of Jesus Christ. I am so troubled for Elmore and for his wife. He is denying his true self in an effort to be accepted in a faith community that is intolerant and she is being lied to. Homosexuality is not a choice, it is how some people are made. Homosexuals who are told that they are sinning by being who they were BORN to be, are bound to be in ultimate pain, and I grieve for their suffering. I am a member of Reverend Ann Marie Alderman’s congregation. I am heterosexual, but I am grateful beyond belief to be a member of a faith community that does NOT teach that people have to change WHO they are to be loved and accepted. Thank you Ann Marie for speaking up!

Posted by: Mom Location: Raleigh on Nov 30, 2007 at 07:22 AM
Jesus always dealt with sin in a person's life, with Love... I think we forget how often each one of us sin and judge others thinking "I'd never do that" According to God's Word; sin is sin from the tiniest white lie to murder...sin is sin... with His help we can stop judging and start loving..

Posted by: Leah Location: Raleigh, nc on Nov 25, 2007 at 07:30 AM
Thank you Ron for speaking the truth about God being put first and then his plan will come after, that includes living a pure lifestyle free from sex before marriage. And thank God that once a man is set free from the bondage of homosexual thinking that he can become a dedicated servant of God, free from the heaviness homosexuality brings.

Posted by: Jennifer Location: Winterville on Nov 16, 2007 at 05:53 PM
Thank you, Rev. Ann Marie, for being a voice of reason! I wonder when we will stop dividing ourselves up into groups and start accepting and respecting everyone that is a part of our community. To those who feel guilty or sinful for the natural tendencies, I say there is nothing wrong or sinful with you. You are a wonderful individual and there is a community of people who will love and accept you just as you are. We're at 131 Oakmont Drive!

Posted by: david Location: wilson on Nov 16, 2007 at 05:43 PM
Again to Guy. There is no real way to control for the massive difference between closeted gays and uncloseted ones. Closeted gays would be older and thus die older than uncloseted ones. Unless you can control for that no study will work. But lets say it actually were true that gays lived fewer years than straights. Blacks live fewer years than whites. Men live fewer years than women. Are men more sinful than women? Is it God's wrath?

Posted by: Guy Location: Washington on Nov 16, 2007 at 02:26 PM
Again to David....let me say it in a different way. The study was from records kept from well over 100 years ago up to present day records....not 100 year old records only. In other words, the study had well over 100 years of records to base their conclusions on. Sorry for any confusion.

Posted by: Karen Location: Raleigh, NC on Nov 16, 2007 at 12:00 PM
Knowing Ron 13 years, there are things I can't argue with in his life: his faith, integrity, and responsibility with the resources that God provides Him and BIM. Ron has believed God for such incredible things that have come to be---I am jealous of such a type of relationship with God, and Ron has spurred me on to seek God's face and holiness in the same way just by being his true, God-intended self. I have never known Ron to lie to me or anyone else about anything, least of all about God. Lastly, there have been plenty of occasions that Ron has chosen to let financial support go to BIM rather than even his own salary. The thought that he's jet-setting around and living some fat cat lifestyle is preposterous and hilarious! Ultimately, neither God nor Ron need me to defend them. They can stand on their own. If you knew my story, though, you'd be quite amazed that I call God my God and Ron my brother and friend. Thanks, Ron, for all you do---even for us "ever-straights!"

Posted by: Pam Location: Beaufort County on Nov 16, 2007 at 11:22 AM
There is a church billboard on Hwy 264 that states the truth, loud and clear. "SIN IS A CHOICE, NOT A BIRTH DEFECT."

Posted by: Lita Location: Stokes on Nov 16, 2007 at 11:09 AM
Listening to Rev. Alderman makes me wonder about her belief of God's omnipotence, God being all-powerful and unlimited. Elmore says that he is there to "help homosexuals longing to change." I believe that God called and chose him for that ministry. How can you help someone get out of something you have never been in or know nothing about their situation? If it helps those seeking help, why complain or talk about it? What are you doing to build the kingdom of God?

Posted by: Charles Location: Atlantic on Nov 16, 2007 at 11:02 AM
R from Washington had some good comments. The issue is not about changing a person(however there is no proof that one is born homosexual)but is about controlling and changing lifestyle choices to agree with what God says in His word, the Bible, is correct living. All sinners, straight or gay, must choose to agree with God and live the way He says we must live. The bottom line, adulterers must quit adultery, liars must quit lying, murderers must quit murdering, fornicators must quit fornication and homosexuals must quit doing their sin and so on. Each person is called to turn from their own unique sins as God has identified them. This means we all must abstain from lifestyles that do not please God. This is only possible through a relationship with God through Jesus Christ and being filled with the Holy Spirit. For by grace are you saved through faith; and that not of yourselves;it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast.

Posted by: david Location: wilson on Nov 16, 2007 at 10:38 AM
Again to Guy. A study from over a hundred years ago? The number of openly gay people could be counted on one hand I would imagine back then. There is no way that would be a statisticly significant sample. Even if it were, there would be a huge number of confounding variables such as difficulty getting jobs (especially for women), abuse by straights both mental and physical, and a host of other factors which could shrink life expectency for gays without gayness being a direct cause.

Posted by: R Location: WASHINGTON on Nov 16, 2007 at 09:10 AM
The Bible is the Word of God. The Word says homosexuality is a sin, just like lying, murder, etc. A sin is a sin, but God can deliver us from sin. We struggle every day in the flesh, but you ask for forgiveness and He forgives. You trust in Him for everything. Sometimes you slip but with praying and trusting in God, He helps us and molds us in His image. I'm sure God is very disappointed in everyone who justifies homosexuality, and He will deal with it in time, just like He did in biblical days. The US is already seeing His wrath re: taking prayer out of schools, abortion. All I can say is read the Bible and do what God tells us to do to be holy in His eyes so that we may have a home with Him in Heaven one day. USA, wake up. God has always blessed our nation but I feel that is changing due to the sin in our nation. Look upward, for the time is near. We need to repent as a nation so God will continue to bless us and that means repent from all sin including homosexuality.

Posted by: Guy Location: Washington on Nov 16, 2007 at 09:04 AM
This is to Dave from Wilson. Thanks for your reply. I said research from an unbiased website "such as the CDC" will prove certain facts. Not all facts I gave were from the CDC, but from unbiased(as best as I could determine) sites. Extensive research on the subject of homosexuality led me to extensive research on my sources....many of which quoted false, biased information for and against homosexuality. These were tossed out. The life expectancy research came from a source that pulled records from well over 100 years ago....long before the appearance of gay newspapers. In their effort to find out about death and dying in general, the information about homosexuals having an average shorter lifespan was simply part of the overall information. Earlier death due to suicide, disease, addictions, homicide, and such appears to be part of that lifestyle......

Posted by: thankful Location: raleigh on Nov 16, 2007 at 08:37 AM
I'm incredibly glad to see that this story finally got some balance. I am a straight person, but I am a strong advocate in support of gay rights. To Guy: The bible says A LOT of things are wrong and sinful. There are many of them that I am sure you do. The only sin here is the people casting judgment on someone for the way they were born. I hope God is willing to forgive the righteous and the people who hate for no good reason. Many of us were born straight. There were many others that were born gay.

Posted by: Holly Location: Raleigh on Nov 16, 2007 at 08:24 AM
The ministry that Ron works with does not go out and actively try to "convert" homosexuals. It is there for those that WANT help in leaving that lifestyle. It also provides help for others that struggle with sexual sin and addidictions, whether gay or straight. Praise GOd for them, for this is an area that the mainstream church apparantly would rather take an "igore it, maybe it will just go away" approach. Many people with nowhere else to turn have been greatly blessed by this ministry.

Posted by: david Location: wilson on Nov 15, 2007 at 10:44 PM
This is to Guy. The study about life expectency of gays isn't from the CDC it is from a right wing 'scientist'. The study was of obituaries in gay newspapers and was of young people. Since the only gays who appear in gay newspaper obits are out. The study answered the question "when do young gays die" Surprise the answer was young. Suicide does tend to be higher but that is almost entirely due to the fact gays are abused by straights.

Posted by: joe stroud Location: morehead city on Nov 15, 2007 at 10:04 PM
This may be the stupidest thing i have ever heard of. i have a good friend who is gay and he says you are born that way and no matter how much religion you get you cannot change this. this is the same group that brought us jimmy swaggart,ernest angsly,jim whittington and jim baker.

Posted by: david Location: wilson on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:51 PM
Thank you for finally bringing a little balance to your report. These people should have been in the report in the first instance. Aaron, you did very well. This is Dave from Wilson whom you met at Duke. If I had known you would represent us so well in the near future I would have gotten your autograph. I still believe this report was unworthy of the prime real estate you gave it but at least your report tonight restored some balance.

Posted by: Guy Location: Washington on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:32 PM
You all certainly can stir things up when you bring up homosexuality. People can, and do ignore what Scripture has to say about the matter....no practicing homosexual will have a place in Heaven. Forgiveness comes with repentance. Jesus came to save us FROM our sins, not save us IN our sins. Something else is also being ignored, namely the health issues that go with that lifestyle. On average, a practicing homosexual can expect to live only into his early to mid fourties. On average, the majority of practicing homosexuals will struggle with a lifelong STD. They have higher suicide rates and higher addiction rates than heterosexuals. A little research on an unbiased website such as the CDC will prove this to be true. As part of the body of Christ, I can say we haven't always dealt with homosexuality as we should have. It's a difficult issue that's made even more so by today's standards that are being set by the media and government. Jesus still saves and sets people free.........

Posted by: cynthia Location: jamesville on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:03 PM
i just saw the news cast at 6:00pm on the 15th. it upset me because the only people you had on there are gay.i don,t know what bible they are getting taught from but homosexuality is a sin.so is being homophobic..its like going to rehab,aa or na. if you want to change i mean for real, it can happen. but if you don't you are wasting your time. alot of the suicide rate are homosexuals! don't get me wrong, i love everyone, but i don't condone what they do. love the sinner, hate the sin.like i said;i was gay for 21yrs. until i chose to turn my life over to god. i prayed that he we mold me into what he wanted me to be,show me his way and purify my heart.this what i truly wanted and so he did and is still doing. so why don,t you read the bible thoroughly and find out the truth. so you will quit deceiving youselves! I'M SO GLAD JESUS SET ME FREE!! INDEED I'M FREE!!!!!!!

Posted by: Paul Location: Durham on Nov 15, 2007 at 08:23 PM
God bless you Ron. I count it an honor to be your brother in Christ. It has been a priviledge to walk out my own issues in fellowship with you seeking to live holy lives pleasing to our merciful Savior Jesus Christ. He is good and His love does endure forever.

Posted by: Big Hank on Nov 15, 2007 at 08:03 PM
Reading these comments really shines a light on what type of people live in our area... All you bible thumping homophobes that believe that homosexuality is a choice please quiet down all the prejudice in your head and think about this- Why would anyone choose to live this lifestyle? Especially in our area... If people could choose wouldn't they walk down the path that wouldn't lead to discrimination, hatred, and 'sin'? Why do people STRUGGLE with sexuality? If it's a choice shouldn't they be able to just switch off the gay and start picking up chicks the next day? It's bothersome how religion requires belief that goes against rational thought and logic... once you start looking at things from a religious perspective you can toss all common sense and clear headed thought out the window.

Posted by: carolyn Location: la grange nc on Nov 15, 2007 at 07:13 PM
if we believe in the Bible we know that God can change a homosexual. we also know that they were not born that way they did that to them self.read Genesis chapter 19.

Posted by: Glenda Location: Washington on Nov 15, 2007 at 06:33 PM
I have lived as a lesbian since I was 16 years old,But last year at age 49,I wanted Jesus truely in my life.When I began to read the Bible for myself,It was clear to me that if I wanted Jesus as my savior, I had to make a sacrifice.In my prayers I asked him to help me with the desire to be with other women,and I can say that by asking him and putting forth an effort,God is keeping me strong. It is an ongoing effort.And I began to fall in love with Jesus,and pleasing your love comes natural. The joy and love I feel now is so real,I have never been happier.I know that I can do all things through Christ.

Posted by: Marvin Location: Harvey on Nov 15, 2007 at 06:28 PM
No ministry can change a person sexual belief.God can only do that.When a gay person say ehat God made them that way that is a lie.I believe it is by choice that a person want to be gay.The word of God Says that homosexualilty is abomination.Once you accept God in your life you become a new creature.That meanss everything has to go.It take longer for some,but if you want to be delivered totally God can do it.

Posted by: ROSE CRISS Location: richlands nc on Nov 15, 2007 at 06:28 PM
I do not agree with mr lucier about homosexuality.God did not make him that way he chose to be that way.God made man in his own image and God is not a homosexual.God says ,if a man lay with a man then they should be put to death.Im sorry thats not my rule its Gods rule,Mr Lucier needs to re read this book,Lev:chapter 20:13.any one who thinks they were born this way is only fooling them selves.because its what they want to do.

Posted by: Ruth Location: Greenville, NC on Nov 15, 2007 at 06:27 PM
This group is not trying to condemn or judge homosexuals. They are trying to give a person a chance to get out of the homosexual lifestyle if that is what they are aking for. They're not forcing any person to make this change, they are there to help. It IS a sin to be with the same sex (read your Bible) and they are helping people turn their lives over to Jesus Christ in order to change their lives and quit following their earthly desires. We all have things we shouldn't be doing and when we turn our lives over to Jesus Christ he helps us overcome anything. We are forgiven of our sins by turning to Jesus Christ; but these people are sadly mistaken if they believe being a homosexual is A) natural or B) not a sin. This country has begun to turn away from God's teachings and soon he will begin turning away from us. He loves us and has given us instructions to follow on earth.............it's called the Bible.

Posted by: Fred Location: Va on Nov 15, 2007 at 06:13 PM
Even my pastor was surprised that I wasn't "delivered" from my struggle upon accepting the Lord Jesus as my savior. But let's face it, we still are tempted in all areas of our life as a Christian, so really it's a process. The temptations matter less because you make a decision to pursue holiness rather than yourself. That's how change happens. But there is no way to deny I have changed PRAISE GOD.(and I struggled with homosexual desires and acting out on those desires) I do NOT want to do those things any more

Posted by: anonymous Location: NC on Nov 15, 2007 at 04:43 PM
RACIAL ORIENTATION? NO WAY dude, that's a measurable characteristic, not one of behavior or your mind like sexual orientation. THat's like telling someone who's fat they have a FOOD ORIENTATION and just need to eat away. "You only live once" vs. "I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me" YOu know the level of hate you've received from unloving "christians" ? You are spreading the same hate here with your closed mindedness. If you choose to not change, fine, but dont' condemn those who HAVE changed and those SEEKING to change

Posted by: lee Location: vanceboro on Nov 15, 2007 at 04:33 PM
I AM A BORN- AGAIN CHRISTAIN. I BELIEVE THAT ANYONE ,THROUGH MY LORD JESUS CHRIST, CAN CHANGE. JESUS LOVES THE HOMOSEXUALS,BUT " HATES" THE SIN. I BELIEVE,IF ARE TRULY SORRY,FOR YOUR SINS AND ASK GOD, TO SAVE YOU AND FORGIVE YOU,HE WILL. WHEN WE SURRENDER ALL TO THE LORD, AND TRULY MEAN IF, THERE WILL A LIFE CHANGE. YOU WIL NOT WANT TO DO ,THOSE THINGS ANYMORE. OLD THINGS ARE PASSED AWAY, AND ALL THINGS BECOME NEW. YOU BECOME A NEW CREATURE,IN CHRIST. GOD BLESS YOU, BRO. ELMORE

Posted by: Anonymous Location: NC on Nov 15, 2007 at 03:21 PM
If it is a sin to be gay...then why is interracial dating soooo accepted. People are born the way they are...it is your destiny to be who you are...nobody should be ashamed of themselves for their sexual or racial orientation...no amount of prayer or faith can change these things. If you believe this, then you are lying to yourself and everybody around you. Be true to yourself, be who you are...you only live once!! Don't worry about what other people think as long as you are happy with yourself and your decisions.

Posted by: I'm FREE! Location: NC on Nov 15, 2007 at 03:04 PM
There are people on the LEFT and RIGHT who hate the work that Ron does. This isn't some "right wing" deal. Many churches ostracize homosexual strugglers which is why they flee from church. They aren't welcomed because their sin is too much for Jesus (false). Then on the left you have those who resent that change is possible because they don't want to feel there's anything negative someone should change FROM. Ron's work is truly the Lord's work, educating both sides about sexual brokenness of people who are Christians and yet struggle. This whole thing is a process, not "poof" you're "healed." Before you criticize this ministry and say those who have changed are fakers, you should check out those who HAVE changed. Do people ever make mistakes and mess up, give in to a temptation? EVER? Yes& in MANY areas not just sex. If you mess up in ANY area of the law, even just thinking about doing wrong, you're condemned, which is why we need Jesus. All is level at the foot of the cross

Posted by: Freedom is GREAT Location: NC on Nov 15, 2007 at 02:54 PM
In the Word Jesus says "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me." Something may feel "good" or "natural" or instinctive such as homosexual attractions, but so might attractions to other things-that's why Jesus said DENY yourself these things. Many of the guys who I know that struggle with same sex attractions don't remember NOT feeling them, so it must SEEM like they were born that way, but there is NO PROOF it's genetic. Churches have treated people ***HORRIBLY*** who engage in this behavior. No wonder there is so much anger from people who feel hated, but Ron and others he helps are not into HATING anyone. They point to the cross and let Jesus do the work. If all you know or feel is condemnation and an attitude of "you're not welcome here" then you are not in a church that is loving unconditionally. I have brothers who've come alongside and helped me in my struggle and it's been the most freeing thing I've ever experienced.

Posted by: Susie Location: Tarboro on Nov 15, 2007 at 02:22 PM
I believe that Jesus Christ changes a person when they ask forgiveness for there sins. I do not believe you are born as a homosexual. Homosexual is a choice just like any other choice (right or wrong) you make through life.

Posted by: Jimmy Location: Raleigh on Nov 15, 2007 at 12:25 PM
Why do people get so mad when someone wants to change. Do people get mad when someone says they changed and started living the gay life style whats so wrong about changing to a straight life style.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: NC on Nov 15, 2007 at 11:47 AM
When are people going to get it through there head that homsexuality is not a choice, it is a born occurence. Maybe some people "experiment" to be cool, but true homesexuality is not something people just decide to be. Oh, by the way, I am a heterosexual induvidual, but I am obviously one of few open minded people in existence.

Posted by: AJ Location: Wake Forest on Nov 15, 2007 at 11:32 AM
Read my comments from bottom up NOT downward.

Posted by: AJ Location: Wake Forest on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:25 AM
If there is a void in my and I want to fill it, and have faith in Christ that He will fulfill me to overflowing measure with His LOVE. So is not if you are gay or straight or sex addict or drug addict or whatever is how you come and follow Christ, and He )God) will guide you to a abundant life. Just come as you are. Thank you so much for airing this News giving hope to those who are Void, empty, hurting, and lonely. Way to go!!!! I once was gay but now I’m saved, LOVED, and transformed, Glory be to our Father God, and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ

Posted by: AJ Location: Wake Forest on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:21 AM
Yes it does say in the Bible that is a sin to be Homosexual, but it also says that is a sin to cheat on your wife, so see that is not about being gay is about living a life that is right for Christ. God doesn’t care if you are gay or straight, all He wants to do is to fill your life with overflowing LOVE and CARE, so me and you wouldn’t have to suffer what He suffered on the cross. He nailed our lives with His. But we need to follow Him, and declare Him as our own personal Savior, because He is the only one that can fulfill us. In following Him; Yes, we do have to follow His commandments, but is not us who is doing it is Him, that gives us the power to do it. And for those who say they tried to come out of the gay life and waited and waited and nothing happened. I’m sorry to burst your bible, but nothing will ever happened, but God wants US to take action in our lives, He did His job on the Cross and Died for us, now we need to come and follow Him whole heartedly

Posted by: AJ Location: Wake Forest on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:21 AM
The same is with Christ when we decide to follow him and LOVE Him, all the other stuff just follows along, but people think that is all the rules which is the foundation of Christians, but is not is Christ, as it says He Nailed it to the Cross. We are to hold to the Head which is Christ. Then if God fulfills all and for all, and if in our lives we feel a void and we are trying to fill it up why can’t we just let Christ fill it up??? Why do we get mad when we see other people getting filled with LOVE and CARE??? Is not that what we all really strive for in life to be LOVED and CARED? Christ came to give us just that. But we need to make a decision to follow Him with all our heart. The things in this world have no value at all once we die, what good was it, everything we did and achieved. What really matters is what Christ did for us and what we decide to do, and how we decide to live our lives.

Posted by: AJ Location: Wake Forest on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:19 AM
Only when we give our lives to Christ can we come out of there. Our angers, and unloved lives and our unworthiness, our feeling that there is just something more to this life, Christ takes away or puts in whatever is missing He completes us. And is not about following rules either, like some people say, that the Bible is just a bunch of rules. The Bible is just the story of Christ and how we His creatures should fall in LOVEs with Him and f0llow Him, is not if I do this or that is if I’m following Him as I should. It says in Colossians: “Having wiped out the HANDWRITTEN of requirements that was against us, which was contrary to us, and He has taken it out of the way, having NAILED it to the CROSS.” Not even us can we complete follow the rules, only Christ has able that is why we follow Him. When we LOVE somebody, it is not a burden to do or please that person.

Posted by: Editor Location: WITN on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:15 AM
Thank you for all your comments. WITN is airing a follow-up report on this subject, tonight on WITN News at 6 p.m.

Posted by: AJ Location: Wake Forest on Nov 15, 2007 at 09:15 AM
It’s not about being gay or ex-gay or is not even about if you have lived a good life with your partner/boyfriend, and have never been a drug addict or been a thief. It’s great if you love your family and you’re a help to the community you are tying to make our country better, but the point is not any of that. Yes, God is a God of love, and a lot of you are RIGHT in saying that who are we to judge you because judging is a sin and you are right!!! Jesus Christ paid too high of a price for us to pick and choose who should be accepted by Him(God)., when He died, He died for all of us. His LOVE for us was so great and vast that He had rather die and live with us than to live with out us. That’s how much Christ loved us. And is not about getting peoples approval either, is about what Jesus Christ says of me. The point is when we come to Christ He fills us up of all we are lacking, with out Him, there is a black pit of despair that no one in the planet earth can take us out of.

Posted by: david Location: wilson on Nov 14, 2007 at 09:07 PM
why, oh why, might some of us be mad at Christians? Could it be that we have been called names repeatedly by Christians? I don't hate Christians but I do hate frauds. I do hate people who prey upon the misery of others. The simple fact is that we can't change who we are. No amount of humiliation, or prayer, or adverse consequences can change that.

Posted by: denise Location: raleigh, nc on Nov 14, 2007 at 06:59 PM
my son is gay and i am a strong christian. as parents loving a gay son, we draw our strength from our faith. we do not approve of his lifestyle. it is a hard place to find, but when you truly yield to God, and love as Christ loved, then we can say "i don't accept your choice but i accept your right to make it & most importantly i love you unconditionally" a common thread i hear in these comments, is all the anger the homosexuals seem to be consumed with. so many of these comments are angry outbursts arguing that homosexuals can't change, that christians are bigots etc. (and i agree there are some) but being a christian is not about judging or changing my son-it is about loving him. i know the hurt and the anger he has and my goal is not to make him heterosexual but to encourage his emotional health and i pray for his return to the Lord. ron and the group he heads gives parents and families a place to feel safe too, to draw comfort and give encouragement. we are grateful for ron.

Posted by: Joe Location: Memphis, TN on Nov 14, 2007 at 05:49 PM
Ron Elmore is an inspiration to so many. He inspired me seven years ago as a young man who was struggling with homosexuality. I say struggling, because it was not something I wanted to embrace. I don't think every homosexual will share my same convictions, nor do I expect them to. I believe the same is true for Ron. Ron does not force anyone to receive his help - he's there for those who want it. I praise God he was there when I reached out for his help those years ago. I am now a married man and my wife and I have one child. We're happy and we love the life we believe God has given us together. I'm not judging anyone, just telling my story - kind of like Ron!

Posted by: Bruce Location: Greenville on Nov 14, 2007 at 05:20 PM
No credible psychologist or psychiatrist believes that such a conversion is actually possible. I asked my brother, a psychiatrist, if he had any gay patients? His response: yes, but not because they’re gay… only because of the normal concerns my patients have, depression and whatnot. None feel that their sexuality is an issue. According to Psychology Today, Christian ministries and their ilk convert about 30% of their gay and lesbian applicants. Compare that to quitting smoking – if you have enough will power you really can do anything if you want it badly enough. Even Ron Elmore says that he is often tempted. Alcoholics know that they can never take a drink. If they are tempted, they call their sponsor or find an AA meeting. Alcoholics then are always alcoholics, but are “recovering.” I suspect our friend Reverend Elmore is still gay, but doesn’t participate. He’s “recovering.”

Posted by: Maverick Location: san francisco,california on Nov 14, 2007 at 02:09 PM
when you come to san francisco,make sure you wear a flower in your hair!

Posted by: Maverick Location: san francisco,cali on Nov 14, 2007 at 02:07 PM
i think us Gays should get together at the Town Commmons Park and have a Gay Pride Festival-Parade.we should really get together and flaunt our RAINBOWS.i really think that should happen.we should march/parade greenville boulevard and show people we are human too.they have all this other stuff like Collard festivals and boat shows but why can't us gays have a gay-parade????

Posted by: Maverick Location: san francisco,california on Nov 14, 2007 at 02:04 PM
WITNTV should be a shamed of them self for promoting such trash on TV. do you have people on the Tube wanting to become Gay? from straight to Gay all of a sudden? or a "COMING-OUT" special? i didn't think so.

Posted by: Maverick Location: san francisco,cali on Nov 14, 2007 at 01:57 PM
North Carolina doesn't even have a real Gay-Pride Parade.not like we do it in the Bay-area.we get down to business.we don't be having religious bands there and phony church folks who are gay.we don't half-step.we have a parade.we are wide open with it.and it's not dead-boring like the n.c. Gay Prides.North Carolina is full of homophobes,closed-minded scary people,and full of under cover Gays.point blank.

Posted by: James Location: Raleigh on Nov 14, 2007 at 01:18 PM
He is not saying people have to change or go straight. He is saying that change is possible. People who are gay are free to be gay, but there are people who want to change.

Posted by: Max Location: Greenville on Nov 14, 2007 at 01:07 PM
A lazy story, not news at all. Who cares?

Posted by: Lidia Location: NC on Nov 14, 2007 at 12:47 PM
Why are you so mad because somebody could change? You don't want to change. Okay! let others do it. Is that scary for you?

Posted by: MAVERICK Location: ORIGINALLY SAN FRANCISCO,CALIFORNICATION on Nov 14, 2007 at 11:15 AM
GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!! GAY AND PROUD!!!

Posted by: David Location: Washington, NC on Nov 14, 2007 at 09:51 AM
CAN I JOIN A CHURCH TO BECOME GAY? WOMEN ARE TOO HARD TO UNDERSTAND ANYWAY!!! HOW ABOUT AN ARTICLE ON TURNING US POOR STRAIGHT GUYS GAY.

Posted by: anonymous Location: NC on Nov 14, 2007 at 09:34 AM
Ah yes, the answer must be in the opinion of the American Psychological Association, controlled by the PRO GAY agenda. Get real people. They have a political agenda by the highly funded gay groups and have rejected all attempts for a balanced view of "can same sex attraction be changed." A committee was formed to study it, and all professional counselors who come from a Christian background were REJECTED from membership. APA "voted" that homosexuality was no longer a condition to need treatment, much to the applause of those who do not want to face that perhaps they are wrong in their behavior. You all that condemn Ron have never even MET the man and lecture us who know him well. Ron, keep up the good fight. Thanks for your courage and faithfulness. This is no scam, it's genuine. There are a TON of things Ron could be doing with his time that would pay FAR MORE and with less controversy. Seems the pro-gay folks are only open minded if you think like them. How enlightened!

Posted by: Rachel Location: MN on Nov 14, 2007 at 07:54 AM
Sad. Why don't we ever hear about those who pray the straight away?

Posted by: TerriAnne DeLizzo Location: winterville,nc on Nov 13, 2007 at 11:28 PM
i love it.but he is not straight.no no no! please help this man.ciao!

Posted by: Meredith Location: Greenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 10:46 PM
Thank you WITN for airing this man's story.it is truly a testimony to the power of prayer.i'm gay but i believe in god.i have a wife name mattie.

Posted by: Meredith Location: Greenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 10:14 PM
Thank you WITN for airing this man's story. It is truly a testimony to the power of prayer.

Posted by: Laura Location: Bertie on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:52 PM
My Partner and I do not do drugs or are we criminals in any way.I in fact am a law enforcement officer and she is an acclaimed artist and writer. We have three children between us two which go to a University. We are no different from anyone else and these PRETEND christians need to stop judging us and trying to change us. THOU SHALL NOT JUDGE isn't that in your bible?The way I was taught was it is not who you love but how you love. These PRETEND Christians that go around and preach their gospel on Sunday but then judge, commit adultry and put others down are only as I said PRETEND. They are the sinners not us. We love each other and our family with all our hearts as your god and our intended to be. GOD does not make mistakes and guess what he made all of us. So by these people saying we are less then them you are not only judging us but saying GOD did something wrong.Maybe someday you will read the whole bible not just parts you want to read!

Posted by: Jill Sterling Location: Beverly Hills,California 90210 on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:42 PM
this is the joke of the day.(HA! HA! HA!) Donald,you are too funny for me. simply outrageous,indeed!

Posted by: Olee Thrower Location: Fresno,California on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:39 PM
Dude needs to stop it.he's doing waay too much!

Posted by: AnnaBelle Location: clovis,california on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:37 PM
this is sooooo bogus! why is it that he wants to be straight? that is just bonkers.yeah,like,very!

Posted by: Penny Armstrong IIIV Location: ToiletVille,North Carolina on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:34 PM
i'm just perturb by all of this madness.but i do hate the fact theres a lier,trying too hard,and sooo hard,to be straight.thats just rubbish!!!

Posted by: Zola Van Trice Location: THE BIG APPLE on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:29 PM
not gay anymore uh? thats really uncool.pretending to be heterosexual.thats an insult.totally!

Posted by: DALLAS Location: SWEET VALLEY,CALIFORNIA on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:21 PM
GAY! GAY! GAY! GAY! AAAAAANNND PROUD!!!!!

Posted by: Shandelle Location: west hollywood,cali on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:16 PM
no he didn't!!! Donald needs to stop being a closet-case.

Posted by: Rick Location: Greenville, NC on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:16 PM
I lived the life of a gay man for almost 10 years, but I choose to leave that behind and turn my life over to God. I’m now married to a beautiful woman whom my strongest desires are for. I'm not calling out others to change, I'm just saying I knew what I was doing was wrong. I thank God everyday for changing me to no longer live in my sinful life. Jesus not only forgave us, but he gave us the Grace to turn away from the sin that binds us in hatred, anger, and isolation. I truly have a life Beyond Imagination thanks to Ron's ministry and God's Love.

Posted by: Champagne Location: Trolla on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:14 PM
Girl!!!! you are sooooooo crazy.miss thang you need to wake it on up,honey!!! your not Gay anymore? some one lied to you,miss thang!!!!!!!

Posted by: CARVELOUS Location: OAKLAND,CALI on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:10 PM
WHATS-UPPER!!? NOT MUCH,HOMIE,JUST CHILLIN' IN DA HOOD. ANYWAY CUZZ.THAT ISSUE IS OFF-THE-HEEZY! FOR SHEEZY!HE NOT GAY NO MO? THATS WACKED! DAWG! YOU REALLY IS PHONY,BRO.YOU KNOW DAT? YEAH,YOU IS!

Posted by: Emeril Location: SWEET VALLEY,CALIFORNIA on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:07 PM
A PRETTY LAME,FLIMSY EXCUSE TO BE STRAIGHT.HE'S NOT GAY ANYMORE? YEAHHHHH,ANYWAY.

Posted by: Dallas Location: SWEET VALLEY,CALIFORNIA on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:03 PM
Boy! this is waaaay funny.oh...gosh! why are people turning straight all of a sudden.can i be straight too? i don't want to be straight.i'm happy being a sissy.i'm a sissy and proud of it!

Posted by: jennifer on Nov 13, 2007 at 08:54 PM
I have personally met Ron and I have found him to be genuine in his love for God. Ron's commitment to helping others who struggle with homosexuality is encouraging and a reflection of God's grace for all mankind that acknowledges Him.

Posted by: Peterson Toscano Location: Hartford, CT on Nov 13, 2007 at 08:53 PM
What often happens with ex-gay success stories is that we don't hear about how the ex-gay still struggles with same-sex attractions. When a parent with a lesiban or gay child hears that a minister used to be gay and now he is a married man, they assume, "wow, he is 100% transformed and is now heterosexual. Maybe my child can change too." This is rarely the case. In fact, most of the marriages I have known where an fomer homosexual married a straight person, the married ended in divorce and heartache. If Ron Elmore is happy and in a stable relationship, that is great for him, but it is not realistic or necessary for the vast majority of people who are romantically and sexually attracted to people of the same sex. You can hear some of the stories of ex-gay survivors over www.beyondexgay.com

Posted by: Maverick Location: greenville,nc on Nov 13, 2007 at 08:44 PM
ATTENTION ALL GAYS!!! go to google.type in: the "CASTRO" district.click on video.go to where you see the man with black hair,rainbow stuff in the back ground.the first page.it'll say the "CASTRO" district,san francisco california.watch that video.you'll get a feel of what the castro is.the gay-village of my city.nothing like it.home sweet home! check out more on the castro distict.

Posted by: Maverick Location: greenville,nc on Nov 13, 2007 at 08:33 PM
Mr. Don Elmor is a homosexual.he cannot deal with his sexuality.if he can turn straight,then why all the gays in the "CASTRO" district are sooooo Gay?

Posted by: Maverick Location: greenville,nc on Nov 13, 2007 at 08:19 PM
Greenville,north carolina is full of in-the-closet GAYS.they are very closed-minded,homophobic and still racist.even the gays be acting very funny.i guess i'm too flamboyant for them.too real.too gay.too open.i guess the gays envy me,because i pull it off good.i just don't care.they call me a flamer.but back home we call them small-town hicks.it's the truth,we all know greenville is full of homophobes like Donald.

Posted by: Concerned Christian Location: USA on Nov 13, 2007 at 07:58 PM
God has not, does not and will not MAKE homosexuals. God CREATED Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve or Ann and Eve for that matter! Does anyone remember this: 'Then the Lord rained brimstone and fire on Sodom and Gomorrah... turning the cities... into ashes, condemend them to destruction, making them an example to those who afterward would live ungodly' Genesis 19:24 and II Peter 2:6. (The word 'example' in this context means exhibit for warning.)

Posted by: Gayle Location: Tarboro on Nov 13, 2007 at 07:30 PM
I know that God can change people. Many who are in the gay lifestyle feel threatened by the idea that change is possible. They prefer to believe that they have no choice, but they do. I pray that those who are living a gay lifestyle, but who are unhappy with their lives, will consider getting help from the Beyond Imagination organization. This ministry has helped many people and I thank God for Mr. Elmore and everyone at BIM.

Posted by: Matt Location: Kissimmee on Nov 13, 2007 at 07:27 PM
Straight from the American Psychological Association website. http://www.apa.org/topics/orientation.html "Can Therapy Change Sexual Orientation? No." "What About So-Called 'Conversion Therapies?'" "Many of the claims come from organizations with an ideological perspective which condemns homosexuality. Furthermore, their claims are poorly documented." "The American Psychological Association is concerned about such therapies and their potential harm to patients."

Posted by: David Location: Washington DC on Nov 13, 2007 at 07:03 PM
Just wondering if I could change my green eyes for blue since DNA seems to be able to be altered by praying.

Posted by: Robert M Location: West Hollywood, CA on Nov 13, 2007 at 06:58 PM
What a complete sham. It's all lies and deceit. There is a word of truth coming out of Ron Elmore's mouth. All Mr. Elmore is doing is perpetrating a fraud upon his community and the people of his church. Sexual orientation isn't fluid, it cannot be changed. Mr. Elmore is lying to himself and to everyone else around him. Worse, he knows he's lying but is doing so because he believes that it is expected of him to do so. His is a vile, self-hating deception. Nothing for Mr. Elmore has actually changed, he's just been brainwashed into believing that in order to be a decent human being he must deny who he truly is. His denial of the truth does nothing but damage himself and everyone around him. I would have pity for him but for the fact that, unlike his true sexual orientation, he has chosen to live in a self-loathing purgatory of his own making. My sympathies lie with all the people around him who he lies to on a daily basis...

Posted by: cynthia Location: jamesville on Nov 13, 2007 at 06:57 PM
i too was gay for 21yrs. now i am straight.i asked the lord to forgive my sins i read the whole bible looking for scriptues that condone homosexuality, but, all i saw was the sinful nature of it. so i asked the lord to mold me into the person he wants me to be and to purify me and my heart. after this i went to church regularly and i got engaged to a man. i tried to do things the christian way. no sex till after marriage. well come to find out he was still sleeping with his exwife. no longer together. i am still straight.the bible says love one another as you love yourself. not make love to one another. even self gratification is a sin. i am saving myself for the man god has for me. in the mean time my focus is on the lord. which is awesome and amazing!! thats what satisfies me.

Posted by: bren Location: grenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 06:35 PM
I know the truth. The desire is always there if a distraction comes my way. However, the strenght of GOD is very powerful in not allowing one to act on the distraction. However, one has to be ready to change. If asking for GOd's help, it can happen.

Posted by: John from DC Location: DC on Nov 13, 2007 at 06:22 PM
If Ron wants to believe he is ex-gay, that's his right. But I pity him because he is so uncomfortable with who he is. I wish he could embrace his homosexuality and recognize it as a gift from God.

Posted by: Tony Location: Washington, DC on Nov 13, 2007 at 06:11 PM
You call yourselves journalists? Are you joking? This story was an embarrassment to television news media! Why did you not bother to interview the thousands of "ex-ex-gays" who can discuss, in detail, the hollow promise of conversion therapy? Why did you not interview a psychologist or psychiatrist, one that is mainstream and credentialed by the APA, who could speak clearly about how sexual orientation is innate. I am appalled at the sloppy, poor journalism evidenced in this piece. WITN should be ashamed of itself.

Posted by: visitor Location: VA on Nov 13, 2007 at 05:53 PM
David: you say people in this group are taught they are hated by their fellow humans. Quite the opposite. This group is about LOVING the person despite their shame, despite their behavior. Not to call wrong right, but to not beat them over the head and chase them out of the church. You have it ALL backwards. For good reason, as the church has fled from the issue of sexual brokenness and treated it as something that people stop struggling with after they get saved. Can you say "Catholic Priest scandal?" Stop hating the people who give people hope. Stop calling the names. You don't like being judged, stop judging them dude. There IS HELP and HOPE. Visit www.exodus.to and find out how Gay is NOT OK, but it's no worse than anything else God says not to do, but the church makes it out like it is. Sin is sin.

Posted by: S. Scott Location: Phoenix on Nov 13, 2007 at 05:40 PM
I can't argue with someone who claims God made him straight. There's no way I can disprove what this man says to be his truth. So be it. He's entitled to do what he feels he needs to do. I do find it so sad to read that he feels he needs to be straight to be loved by the Universe and those around him, however. All I can say do is give my testimony: Being gay is good, wonderful and beautiful. I am a healthy and happy gay man and I know that God loves me. My boyfriend is a healthy and happy gay man, too. We are loved and supported by our families and our community. I know many other happy and healthy gay men and women, most are very spiritual and do their best to be good people every day. Basically, if ex-gay people and their supporters want acknowledgment for their new found "realities" and belief systems they need to do happy, content gay people the same courtesy.

Posted by: anthony Location: new bern on Nov 13, 2007 at 05:19 PM
Homosexuality is not a choice. You are born the way you are. you may can force yourself not to engage in gay activities, but deep down you are what you are.

Posted by: david Location: wilson on Nov 13, 2007 at 05:11 PM
I am simply amazed you decided to devote such a valuable time in your news to this nonsense. It is nothing short of absurd that people can change their sexual orientation. Why didn't you mention during this report the numerous cases of ex gays being caught in gay bars and one famous case of two founders of exodus, both male, falling in love with each other. This is total and complete fraud. I still remember spending my 17th birthday wondering why God wouldn't make me straight. I now know, he couldn't make me straight. I am gay, that doesn't make me more moral than my straight cohorts but it doesn't make me less moral either. These people prey upon week and scared people who learn from an early age they are sinners and hated by their fellow humans. In a very real sense Matthew Shepard is the ultimate ex gay. Because no one would go to these charlatans but for the fact they are made miserable by their fellow man. Shame on you for such an unbalanced report. It wasn't news.

Posted by: Erik Location: MD on Nov 13, 2007 at 04:52 PM
Show me a man who claims he's gone from gay to straight and I'll show you a liar. What's next? Someone who claims to have received 10 million dollars in an e-mail from a Nigerian prince? God didn't change this man from gay to straight, but He did give him a lucrative "business." Some people will just fall for a con every time.

Posted by: GILBERT RAY ZAPATA Location: SAN FRANCISCO,CALIFORNIA on Nov 13, 2007 at 04:20 PM
(TO: ANN MARIE IN GREENVILLE,NC.) Girl,you are not crazy are you? i hope not.miss thing,you said theres many gays who are afraid to be open because of this.no,darling,this is petty.why are they going to be afraid?only because they live in a small-hick town where every one has a one track mind.that is if you look different or talk different or openly-gay,people will judge you.only because it's the bible-belt.now,in "MY" city anything goes.we aren't the scary-type.we aren't gay only on the weekends.we are gay every day.we hold hands in public.we kiss in public.we hang out with "Real" down-to-earth straight people.so what the heck are you talking about? maybe in your town they are afraid.because theres no place for them to go.no gay-friendly hang outs,no good night clubs,and a crappy down town where a bunch of snobby college kids go.theres not even a punk/goth or industrial scene.if they did people do stare and make smart comments.they are scared of change.the majority of greenville is!

Posted by: Joy Location: Harnett county on Nov 13, 2007 at 04:13 PM
If after reading these postings I had to choose which arena of thought represented truth, then I would have to weigh the cynical angry callousness of the non believers against the hope and grace and love expressed by believers. Where would the one true God be? God is Love. God is Truth. Grace is the manifestation of both through Jesus Christ. I know Ron and the beacon of hope that BI ministry has been to strugglers and families in tremendous pain. I pray for those of you that choose to negate hope. Freedom found in holiness is not about sexual choices, it is about choosing abundant life through the Author of Love.

Posted by: Ann Marie Location: Greenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 04:00 PM
I was disappointed with the amount of time you devoted to the story about Ron Elmore. This kind of coverage lends itself to divisiveness and hate crimes against gays. We would all be better off if your coverage was more balanced. There are many gay people who are afraid to open. This kind of story is one of the reasons why.

Posted by: visitor Location: VA on Nov 13, 2007 at 03:52 PM
No, there is no way this could happen. Some things are just TOO BIG for God. He can raise the dead, make the blind see, make the lame walk, but in the area of sex he is completely helpless because these attractions are BIGGER than God....NOT. Of Course people can change, how can you say God is limited to what He can do. All praise to Jesus. Congrats on a brave piece of work, WITN. Must have struck a chord, look at all the hateful messages by the "gay is OK with God" crowd.

Posted by: Teela Location: Eternia on Nov 13, 2007 at 03:49 PM
indeed i shall not support this ignorant castastrophe.i'm bound to what i truly believe in.no man can be transformed into something he is not.he can be transparent,the truth indeed will come forth sooner nor later.i shall cherish my "Gayness" because it's magnificent to be a gay-woman.very proud indeed!

Posted by: Fred Location: CA on Nov 13, 2007 at 03:35 PM
never met a single gay guy who wanted to be the way he was. Met a lot of guys who walked away from the lifestyle and would NEVER go back to it. You weren't MADE that way any more than you were MADE to give into any behavior you may be tempted to do. All the guys I know who are gay had things happen to them growing up from as far back as they can remember, so its natural to feel you were BORN that way. Your argument Brian is like saying I was born to love food, I just can't stop eating and a weigh 400 pounds, but this must be the way I was made to be, so let me embrace my own way. Sorry, don't buy it.

Posted by: Aaron Lucier Location: Greenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 03:23 PM
contact me if you want to do a story of a gay man, who is happy who he is, happy with his relationship with God, happy with his relationship with his family, and has been with the same person in his life for over 10 years... no drugs, no shame, and active helping his community :-)

Posted by: Pippy Location: ayden,nc on Nov 13, 2007 at 03:23 PM
so what! the man is in the closet. Duhhh!!!

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Posted by: Brian Location: Washington DC on Nov 13, 2007 at 03:13 PM
Another dichotomous article purporting that you are either gay or Christian. I don't doubt his misery as a young man, growing up gay in such an anti-gay environment, with multiple relationships and drug use. Of course your life was off the path!! But he should also realize you can ameliorate those things through counseling, and still seek the Lord's help without compromising the sexuality that the Lord gave him. He said it himself " I didn't choose to be homosexual. "

Posted by: anonymous Location: SFO on Nov 13, 2007 at 02:54 PM
seems odd to see people angry that others want help to change from unwanted attractions. If you don't choose to follow God and the higher standard he calls followers to uphold, why slam those who DO follow Him. You can't stand the thought that there really is right and wrong, and want to be left alone to do whatever you feel like doing without consequence.

Posted by: Frank Location: NC on Nov 13, 2007 at 02:31 PM
I'm amazed that people who don't like or believe this story somehow interpret it as being "not loved by God in the way that they were created." The church is full of hypocrites and sinners, come on in and join us, don't wait to get your mess cleaned up. Let Jesus clean you up, whatever your mess. God loves EVERYONE, he doesn't hate this sin worse or less than other sins, but if you feel ticked that it's called a sin, take it up with God. There are some churches out there that freak out if they knew what their attendees were struggling with, but we need to be real and transparent, not a bunch of fakers. For those who have been hurt or pushed away by the church, I am sorry, that's not a reflection of love and mercy and unconditional love. God loves you, but He loves you too much to leave you the way you are, whatever thing you struggle with: drugs, alcohol, sex, crime. He wants you to be free. He didn't judge the woman caught in adultery, but he also to go and STOP SINNING. Way2g!

Posted by: Kim Location: Ahoskie on Nov 13, 2007 at 01:29 PM
Why do people, that claim they are Christians, feel that they should limit God. He healed the lame, the blind, raised the dead, His own Son was buried and arose on the third day. Healing Homosexuality is a piece of cake. For those that are skeptical, ask God to truly come into your heart, if you are sincere, You will certainly be amazed at what he can't do which is nothing. Way to go WITN for having the courage to air this show. Ron you are doing a fine work, keep it up!

Posted by: Chris Location: Greenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 01:18 PM
Thank you for this story concerning a man who has chosen heterosexual behavior over homosexual behavior. Exodus international is considered an "ex-gay" ministry. I hope you will follow up with a story concerning "ex-ex-gay" Christians. I am a Christian who spent many years in ex-gay counseling just to loose hope in both God and myself. No matter how much I wanted to change, the desires in me never changed. I slipped into despair because God didn't change my orientation. I then began to consider people who claimed to be both gay and Christian, and was very surprised to find a community of Christians who supported a holy lifestyle who reconsidered what the Bible had to say about them. I am now a gay Christian man who is living God's will as a gay man. I was never involved in any sort of drug life style as many Christians would assume. I also encourage you to check out www.gaychristian.net, whose founder is a resident of Raleigh, as they have a great insight into the Christian life.

Posted by: sun dancer Location: ARIZONA originally. on Nov 13, 2007 at 01:05 PM
Gee,i guess the man is afraid of being gay.thats awful.Gee-Whizz,thats crazy. anyway,good luck!

Posted by: ANNIE Location: g-vegas on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:55 PM
okay.your straight.big deal,move on now. let the real gays have some spot light time.i bet you got that attention you wanted.didn't you? yeah,you did,you are just really nuts.

Posted by: Gilbert Ray Zapata Location: san francisco,california on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:51 PM
honey,you need to wake up and smell the latte.okaaay! all these crazy lies.we don't play that here.we are gay and proud.we are gay every day,and,very happy.why can't you deal with being a confused person.this is just horrendous.point blank.okaaay!

Posted by: justice barbone Location: cary,nc on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:47 PM
i'm from atlanta.i live in cary though.i think you are very hideous.no man in his right mind wants to be straight if he's gay.stop covering up your true self.theres too many distortions in your life...just deal with them.

Posted by: Melissa Location: Jacksonville on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:42 PM
He is coming out on T.V. to show how great our God is and how he can deliver us from evil and the things of our flesh!

Posted by: DOROTHY MAE BOZOLIN Location: AYDEN,NC THE BIG A-TOWN. on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:27 PM
I reckon he's strate.i dun no whatta beleev.i fill so upset though.cause i really cant stand fake people.i reckon he'll be okay.none ma business but he needs to not tell the hole world.thats not kool.i have no idear about gay folks.i never met one befor.i never been to know biggo city befor.there is not any gays in ayden.but hey i guess they coming soon.it will be ok.i reckon they can do my hair and my make-up.i just never met a gay person befor.ah,i reckon they are kool.it's all gravy though.ron pleese know i wish ya luck.my ma says hi.

Posted by: S Location: Greenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:26 PM
I am outraged. This infuriates me. It is not bad to be gay. If there is a "god" then "he" created and loved all people, this includes gay people. This article is ridiculous.

Posted by: Kier Location: BERKLEY,CA. on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:17 PM
TOTALLY NO-WAY.YOU ARE NOT STRAIGHT.WHO ARE YOU FOOLING? MAYBE YOUR HOMOPHOBIC-CHURCH FRIENDS BUT NOT ME.WE ALL SEE THROUGH YOU.JUST REALISE ONE DAY YOU'LL HAVE TO FACE THE MUSIC.IT'LL BE REALLY LOUD BUT HEY YOU'LL DEAL WITH IT THEN,I GUESS.GROOVY? GROOOOOOooovy!

Posted by: linda escamilla Location: grimesland on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:12 PM
Praise God because he's the only one who can make a change in anybody!

Posted by: Pam Location: Beaufort County on Nov 13, 2007 at 11:39 AM
I have known Ron since he was 17 years old. He was a very dear friend then, and I would hope that if our paths crossed today that friendship would continue. He has changed. He gave me a magnet one year for Christmas, it was for the dishwasher but it had another meaning for him. One side said "dirty" the other side was "clean." As he gave it to me he said, "When you use this, remember what God has done in my life and pray for me that I can help others find their way to Jesus." Love you Ronald and I am very proud of you!

Posted by: Matt Location: Raleigh on Nov 13, 2007 at 11:29 AM
Beyond Imagination doesn't attack anyone; it exists to *support* those who are weary of same-sex attraction and desire change. Why does it make people angry that there exist people who experience same-sex attraction and believe it manifests emotional and relational brokenness for them? As for God, if same-sex attraction indeed arises from deep wounds, then God is loving to say homosexuality needs healing. If it's innate and normal, then God is unloving to say this. The point: different assumptions = different conclusions; people choose for themselves. Ron's story is real, and I've known him for years. He points his ministry to Christ and not to the opposite sex. I'm proud of him, and I'm grateful to the Lord for this ministry which helps meet my own deep need. I can personally say: change is real for anyone for anything, and Jesus is not in the business of politics or condemnation. I challenge others to consider both sides soberly and deeply and to choose well. This is Ron's story :)

Posted by: Alawishes chaderjian Location: Atlanta,ga.little five points district. on Nov 13, 2007 at 11:21 AM
i'm a lesbian.i really think your life is really tied up into something you can't deal with.whats your bag? why is it such a big deal? you don't see us on TV saying "Heeeey! i'm coming out today!" no you don't.so,stop your mad-corny poor-me stuff.okay?

Posted by: Exaviar Maher Location: Malibu,california on Nov 13, 2007 at 11:16 AM
Wow!!! that is amazing.you must have the potion to stop being a Homosexual.is it because you live in north carolina? you cannot face the closed-minded environment? gee,you really need some help,Ron.i'm straight but i have a Gay cousin.i love him to death.you are really making it hard for our Gay communities.please stop your bogus lies.you are totally totally totally full of them.theres no need to cover it up,it'll come out one day.you'll see.peace-out!

Posted by: Aaron Lucier Location: Greenville, NC on Nov 13, 2007 at 11:04 AM
While I agree with the rights of people to pursue some level of “change” if they wish, yet I worry about people struggling with being gay, only hearing the message you are sinful and you must change to be happy. I know many people who have spent years of their lives in torment, not because of their being gay, because of the views of their church and family. They have been happier and from my view healthier when they came out. Living hidden and secret lives is often the hurtful and harmful situation, but this is often forced upon folks by families and society. If folks were really in a situation where they could choose for themselves, I think most would choose to follow their sexual orientation. Yet, we live in a nation where SOME churches and some families do not present that living as a gay or lesbian person is really an option. So until it is really a choice to look at some type of change or not, I worry about the message stories like this present.

Posted by: Rich Location: Greenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 10:52 AM
I was extremely disappointed in the coverage provided in this story. 1) It is not news, let alone a top story warranting placement ahead of VETERANS DAY commemorations across the East. 2) The attempt to be balanced fell far short, with the "ex-gay" minister getting far more camera time than the Psychology professor. There appears to have been no attempt to get a religious viewpoint other than the one that tells gay and lesbian people that they aren't loved by God in the way that they were created. The most balanced part was that they read 4 comments from the website... 2 for and 2 against. Not to mention the repeated plugs for the story during prime time. I also put no faith in your web poll... It is poorly worded and the ex-gay people knew well in advance that this story would air and had more opportunity to vote. WITN gets a big thumbs down and multiple boos from me on this story. I hope you can rectify it, and quickly.

Posted by: FreeMan in Raleigh Location: Raleigh on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:51 AM
Thanks WITN for showing that change IS possible for those who desire it. It's rare to hear on TV that FREEDOM is possible. The amount of anger shown by some comments is ironic given how "tolerant" and "open minded" they want people to be about their lifestyle. I struggled with unwanted same-sex attraction for many years but have discovered true freedom by being honest and walking in truth instead of giving into longings or behaving because it "felt right." For years I denied very little in my life, & let my selfishness run its course causing loved ones, including my wife and children and parents much pain. Not everyone wants to change, but to be angry at people who DO WANT to change makes no sense unless your agenda is to quit trying to feel guilty about your behavior. I learned this issue is about behavior not identity. It enslaves so many, but sin is sin, and for years I believed the lie that Jesus died for all other sins except this one. Not REPRESSED here, just FREE here.

Posted by: Marilyn Location: Raleigh on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:50 AM
Who really likes their job? Most of us don't. But you got to pay the bills. So either this guy gets a $10/hour job and remain officially gay or becomes an "ex-gay" in moves into a 6-figure salary with perks like a free car or home. Yeah, you're living a lie, but your living large. Look at Ted Haggard from Colorado. Made mega-moolah, had the church pay for his swank house, free travel, etc. Not a bad gig. I guess he saved up a little money on the side each week (without the wife getting too suspicion) for a little fun with the boys. On the other hand, there's a certain thing called integrity and being-true-to-oneself. Personally, I'd like the big salary and lifestyle, but not at the expense of lying to yourself and hurting your spouse when the truth finally does come out. Not to mention the hurt he does to other gays and lesbians by giving fodder to the fundamentalists to block civil rights laws, marriage/civil unions and/or domestic partnerships. Hope it's all worth it! Enjoy the cash!

Posted by: Jim Location: Washington on Nov 13, 2007 at 09:23 AM
Anyone who thinks that homosexuality is a choice is at the very least extremely naive. I dont see how any straight man could see it as a choice. Im straight and the thought of gay sex is disgusting to me, so I think it would be impossible for any straight man to choose this lifestyle. I personaly believe that the gay lifestyle cannot be a choice, they must be born that way, that is the only thing that makes any sense. Now I personaly do not have a problem if someone is gay, it is simply none of my business. I am a Christian but I dont like people using the Bible to condem people who are born gay, its not right. The Bible in Leviticus also says it is an abomination to eat shrimp. How many folks in Eastern NC eat Shrimp? I sure do. The Bible also says that a person should be stoned to death if they work on the Sabbath, do you folks believe this too?

Posted by: Editor Location: WITN on Nov 13, 2007 at 08:32 AM
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Posted by: Kevin Collier Location: Kinston on Nov 13, 2007 at 08:11 AM
God can save anyone. The transforming power of God is absolute. However, God only changes people who are willing to change. Homosexuality is sin and is condemned throughout the Bible. God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for this sin. When Jesus died on the cross He died for all of our sins. For this man to be saved, he had to accept Jesus as His Savior from his sins including homosexuality. True repentance can only come from the infilling of the Holy Spirit. God's Spirit gives the believer power over any type of sin including homosexuality.

Posted by: concerned Location: cary on Nov 13, 2007 at 07:50 AM
I think that is incredibly ignorant of this "news" station to post this biased article. It's propaganda like this that keeps people in a position where they have to hide who they are, repress who they are, and be fearful of others finding out their true selves. You should be ashamed WITN.

Posted by: GILBERT RAY ZAPATA Location: SAN FRANCISCO,CALIFORNIA on Nov 13, 2007 at 06:14 AM
Both of those pastors were big "Queens". i bet it "is" beyond imagination.they are living in a fantasy-island.they need to stay in n.c.,don't come to san francisco with that crazy-talk.it's very absurd.yeah,in the "Castro" district we are laughing because these Queens need some help.even our Queens here thinks this small-town stuff is funny.but again i guess it's beyond imagination.but it's fabulous,being GAY and PROUD!!!!

Posted by: Jon Location: Havelock on Nov 13, 2007 at 04:25 AM
Anyone who says homosexuality or even bisexuality (yes bisexuality is real, not everything is black and white, there are gray areas in life) is not a choice obviously has never dealt with it. This was an incredibly one-sided and ignorance supporting story. Thanks, WITN7, for helping to keep things difficult for the homosexual community. Seriously, was it really that slow of a news day?

Posted by: john c. Location: greenville on Nov 13, 2007 at 03:06 AM
This isn't news. This isn't even news-worthy. I'm amazed at how one-sided this story was. I barely know where to begin with this one. As mentioned by other people here, where was the flip-side? The ones who are homosexual, faithful to their religion, and happy about it? What I did see was a man who is likely in denial, repressing his true feelings. I'm a heterosexual and an agnostic, so I guess this story wasn't for me. Here's what you did accomplish though: A) You've given the right-wing a soap-box, from which they will wag their fingers, beat their bibles, and say, "See! Homosexuality's a choice!" Since people saw it on TV, it must be the truth. B) You've more than likely alienated the gay community. C) You've weakened your own journalistic integrity with such narrow presentation. Well done. Maybe next time we'll get to see a story about a dog who, through the power of prayer and scripture, changes into a cat. I'm on the edge of my seat with anticipation.

Posted by: christine Location: durham on Nov 13, 2007 at 12:16 AM
I Thank GOD for finding this ministry 3 years ago. I don't find the same recovery tools anywhere else. Beyond Imagination, it is a rare & valuable resource for hurting people. Ron's ability to merge grace and truth make this ministry a life line to the wounded (like me.) GOD has shown me that my sins are not to much for HIM to handle. I know I am stronger in community than by my self & I have Hope because of it.

Posted by: Frank Location: Raleigh on Nov 12, 2007 at 11:56 PM
Change is possible, and as Ron has stated it is a pursuit of holiness. It's funny that in our Christian culture many choose to believe God, in His infinite power, mercy and grace, can heal any number of deep seated hurts, issues, and addictions. Yet when it comes to sexuality, suddenly that is something that can not be changed. While I applaud WITN for taking on this controversial issue, I wish better care had been taken in creating the piece. Primarily, you show Ron in an empty sanctuary all by himself. Yet this is not Ron's life. He is surrounded by lots of people who love and support him, his wife, and the ministry. In fact change involves the support of community: friends, family, church. Lastly I took offense by the comment "Ron has been married and drug free for 10 yrs" as if these are the hallmarks of change; they're not. Change is so much more. It is a life characterized by the pursuit of holiness.

Posted by: Anthony Location: kinston on Nov 12, 2007 at 11:39 PM
hey palmer have you read the Arabic text the word wife check out its real meaning in the language in which it came. you all are so missinformed

Posted by: Bryan Location: Morehead City on Nov 12, 2007 at 11:28 PM
I am hurt that your station ran such a lopsided story. Where were the homosexuals who have peace with God and are also openly and happily gay? Why didn't the professor get to say more? Why wasn't this presented as an issue of faith, not fact? Stories (aka: Fictions) like this perpetuate the oppression. Congratulations WITN7, you have helped continue the oppression. You have also lost a regular viewer.

Posted by: John Location: Greenville on Nov 12, 2007 at 11:15 PM
It is beyond my imagination why this channel would choose to run such a journalistic farce, when there is so many more pressing and real issues facing the communities this channel serves. Instead of talking about these issues, we are greeted with this as the top story. I guess I shouldn't be suprised at the continued ignorance that plagues this area. My hope and "prayer" if you will is that these types of "ministries" will recognize the damage they create and redirect their resources into building up their community instead of promoting continued ignorance.

Posted by: Alex Location: Durham on Nov 12, 2007 at 10:01 PM
I have discovered at B.I. that accountability with others helps me to control my behaviors and step away from sin. By God's Grace I can have control over my life by realizing what my triggers are, bouncing my eyes and praying over every thought. I never thought I would find help but now I've found Hope in Christ.

Posted by: palmer Location: raleigh on Nov 12, 2007 at 09:47 PM
God doesn't hate or condemn someone for having same sex attractions. He does, however, condemn premarital sex, be it straight or gay. Sex is only blessed by God in the context of marriage, and marriage is defined as being between a man and a woman. I wholeheartedly believe that a man or woman can change their sexual desires with God's help. It's not easy, in fact it's hell, but it can be done. It is a matter of obedience and submitting your will to God, doing what He asks of you. I know of many men and women who desired to do God's will more than their own and they chose to place their sexual desires (gay or straight) under His authority. He helped them.

Posted by: Carol Location: Raleigh on Nov 12, 2007 at 09:37 PM
I have been walking in ministry with Ron for 11.5 years. God has done an incredible amount of healing in many areas of each of our lives. Even though I was a Christian, I had several lesbian affairs during the first 20 years of my marriage. Then for 10 years I suppressed my desires and "white knuckled" it to stay out of other affairs. However, as I acknowledged my past and dealt with it, God has taken away the same sex attractions and given me wonderful relationships with women. I have found a new freedom in life and in Christ. God loved me completely through all of my struggles. However, I never felt free. I now have a freedom in life I did not have then.

Posted by: cheryl Location: Erwin, NC on Nov 12, 2007 at 09:28 PM
I know this man and I have seem the struggles that he has overcome with the help and love of the Lord for the past 20 -30 years. he is a strange will man and he has a wife that is even more strong will and loving with the LORD. I love this man and what he stands for.Ronald, my brother keep on walking with the Lord for you know what he has done for yours and my family. HE HAS CHANGED .

Posted by: Anthony Location: kinston on Nov 12, 2007 at 08:01 PM
Elizabeth, I hope you are not from exodus the program that scares and misinforms gay youth with there bigotry. The tell them that there is something wrong with them that they can be fixed. Here is a real youth association ROSMY (Richmond Organization for Sexual Minority Youth) Any one of you that believes that you are not born the way god wants you need to really do some reading.

Posted by: Mike Location: Cary on Nov 12, 2007 at 07:55 PM
I would think if you are planning to buy into the Bible as being the Word of God, then it would logically follow that a loving creator would provide a way to change from any sinful habits we have. I'm mean it would seem kind of silly of God to condemn someone if they absolutely could not change, not that the change would be easy. Birth never is. Of course if you look a the bible as merely collective suggestions authored by man with no divine grace and authority behind it, the whole spirit led change thing probably does not make a lot of sense. It's about belief, not reason. I say if someone has found joy and is helping other find joy - more power to him.

Posted by: Anthony Location: kinston on Nov 12, 2007 at 07:55 PM
Ron I'm not saying that God didn't do this for you but did you ever think of being celibate? Like the true meaning of the word eunuch. God be wrathful if you speak not truth. think about it king David walked with God and did his work. what about him(David) and Jonathan? You possiably have made it twice as hard for us who "know thy self" to go to church. Your act though it may have been in good intent to help kick start faith can do so much more damage than good, remember that the road to hell is paved with good intentions. God be with you brother.

Posted by: Anthony Location: Kinston on Nov 12, 2007 at 07:17 PM
I cant believe this station actually ran this story! Are you insane? I'm a gay male living in kinston. Daily I'm torn between being myself and what is the norm. I have a close relationship with God. I know that when Christ died and was resurrected our "sin" was forgiven. (for you that don't know the bible thats most of Levi and Deut.) Also known as the purity code. Homosexuality isn't a choice! "The lord knew me be for my mother and my father, He sewn me together to do his work" I am who I am the way God made me. So many people pick and chose what suits them from our good book(no mater how incomplete it is ) did any where in the bible are we to chose what books should and should not be in it? Has anyone from this station heard of the kinsey scale heres the link: www.gaylife.about.com/cs/gay101/a/kinsey.htm As for WITN maybe next time you will do some research and (forgive me ) play a little "devils advocate"!

Posted by: Ron Location: Raleigh on Nov 12, 2007 at 07:16 PM
Thank you Elizabeth... and John you are right... it IS about being Holy... not perfect. But Holy. David you too are right. Homosexuality is not a choice. And changing is not the purpose. I made a decision to walk with God. At that time I did not even know that God would address this part of my life. My prayer was not to get into God's love... I already had that. My prayer was asking that He (God) be the center of my life.

Posted by: Buffy Location: USA on Nov 12, 2007 at 06:56 PM
"Ex" gays are merely repressed homosexuals. You can't make yourself into something you're not. You can only force yourself to pretend in order to please others, typically God and bigots.

Posted by: Elizabeth Location: Windsor on Nov 12, 2007 at 06:22 PM
Everyone of us are born with all kinds of issues. Some children from a very early age are more aggressive than others, almost violent. Some of us struggle with wanting to take things that don't belong to us, while others never feel this urge at all. We are now learning that many people are naturally drawn to desiring young children as sexual partners, while for most of us, this seems appalling. Some people are born with the attraction to their own gender. The list goes on and on. Jesus Christ came to show us that regardless of the struggles you may be born with, you can be "born again." Non-believers have no idea of what that means. They laugh and say it is ridiculous. But for those of us who have experienced that "new birth" it is very very real. Without a doubt, homosexuals can give their struggles to God and be set free. Let's be happy for this man. And by the way, if there is a struggle you would like to release, just ask God. It is not a fairy tale.

Posted by: Mike Location: Newport, NC on Nov 12, 2007 at 06:17 PM
At least 4 places in the Bible, it says that for all who believe, everything is possible with GOD. a

Posted by: david Location: greenville on Nov 12, 2007 at 06:14 PM
I feel that homosexuality is not a choice, and is not changeable. It can be supressed.To say that you must change and need to be heterosexual to be holy goes agianst the christian belive of love and acceptance. Who would want to choose to fight for acceptance, and seemingly be taboo to society? If everyone needed to meet certian criteria to recive the blessings of god is not what christian faith is based on. To encourage people to pray for change to get in to god's love goes agianst him loving all his children no matter their color,age, or creed.

Posted by: john Location: greenville on Nov 12, 2007 at 06:05 PM
"its not about being straight, its about bein Holy"


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